haan ham sab insecure hai... agar aisa nahi hota to ham bahut se kaam nahi karte jo ham karte hai.
agar ham insecure nahi hote -- to gareebo ki taraf se muh nahi modte... kachade ke paas se gujarate hue naak nahi band karte --- aur kahan khaane ke pahale haath nahi dhote.
ham insecure hai aur secure hona chahate hai.
Agneepath kaa ek scene bahut acha lagaa tha -- badhiyaa dilemma --- Amitabh bachan ne itni taakat jama ki thi ki koi usako chu nahi paayega -- phir koi usake parivaar par atyaachar karnaa to door soch bhi nahi paayega --- lekin usaki behan ko kuch gunde bhare bajaar rape karne waale hote.
Amitabh ki maa kahti hai --- ki bura karne waale ke saath bura hi hotaa hai... Amitabh ne taakat ikatha karne ke gunaah kaa raasta apnaya tha... waise film dekhane ke baad usakaa gunaah bas ek business jaisa hi lagtaa hai... aisa koi gunaah nahi jisake kaaran aap kissi aadmi se nafrat karne lagte hai.
wo to us film ki kahani thi ---- yahaan security kaa matlab ye hai ki mujhe koi dukh naa ho... paise ki jab jaroorat ho wo ho... aur ek tarah se jo mujhe chahiye wo mujhe mil jaaye.
esame ilaaj, rahane ke liye ghar, ghumane ke liye gaadi -- bahut basic hai... lekin ye sab khud me kuch lakh se lekar crore aur kuch hazaar laakh crore ke bhi ho sakte hai... waise normal life me esake siwaa bhi itne kharach hai -- aur unke saath ek social status aur apni icha judi hai jo aapko bahut jyada paisa jama karne ke liye utsuk karti hai.
kaaphi dinno se kaam karte hue ek baat samajh me aaya hai.. ki ek aadmi ke shareer ki ek chamtaa hai jitnaa wo kaam karega aur paisa kamaayega... lekin agar wo bahut se logo ki chamtaa ko jod de... aur usakaa shauda kare to wo bahut paise kamaa saktaa hai.
ham kissi ke liye kuch karte hai to wo apne paise me se hame kuch paise de deta hai.... jab wo paisa hame mil jata hai to phir jo hamaare liye kaam kar raha hai usako ham usame se kuch de dete hai aur kuch apne bure waqt ke liye bacha lete hai.
lekin hamara bura waqt hamaari tarakee ke saath utnaa hi bada ban jata hai... bada sirf paise ke sense me hi hai.
lekin life me insecurity to hai nahi... aapke saath kabhi bhi kuch bhi ho saktaa hai... to jo log aappar dependent hai unako bhi secure kar lo... marne ke baad to waise mujhe kyaa farak padega lekin jab tak main jinda hun tab tak apne bache aur biwi.... kyunki shadi ke baad sabase close wahi ho jaate hai... maa, baap aur bhai... bahan to hai nahi.... lekin esako thoda aur bada karun... to kuch dost yaar.... kuch aur ristedaar... aur ek bada saa samooh ban jata hai.
par main sabake liye kyaa kar raha hun?? atleast unake liye paise to nahi jugaad raha hun.... pahale apni jaroorat aur phir unaki..... to ye paisa ek ajeeb si cheej hai aur esake liye ki gayi masakat aur bhi ajeeb hai...
tarah tarah ke scenario aate hai... paisa hone ke baad bhi bahut kuch aisa ho saktaa hai ki jisase life ek dam mast ho jaaye.... lekin kitni bhi behtar life ki kalpana kare usame problems ke hajaaro gunjaaish hai.
aur life ko paise ki bahut jyada kami ho... to wo pareshan kar sakti hai... jaise ki bahu jyada hone par pareshan karti hai.... gareeb hone par aapki biwi ki jab ijjat looti jaayegi to aap usako gareeb par atyachar kahenge.... ameer hone ke baad aapki biwi kissi ke saath soye... chaahe wo business development ke liye... yaa phir apne shauk ke liye... yaa akelapan door karne ke liye... boriyat khatam karne ke liye.... yaa phir kissi bhi kaaran se... to ye gussa bhi tarah tarah kaa ho saktaa hai.
to ham kyaa kare?? koi icha naa kare.... kissi bhi cheej ko naa maane... jo hoga wo ho saktaa hai... phir anger aur tamaam human emotion kaa kya... irshyaa, jalan, nafrat, abhimaan, swaabhimaan, kartavya, kaamna, chinta... ye sab alag alag tarah ke emotion and act ho sakte hai... lekin en sabpar control kaa matlab kyaa hai??
aur wo jeevan kya ho saktaa hai... aur hoga to kaisa hoga??
esako ek baar sahi se vichaar karo...
ab mera man kartaa hai ki main apne maa baap ke saath rahun... lekin unake sath rahane me bhi khitpit wali problems... cheejon me hastachep jo mujhe pasand nahi hoga... door hai to naa hamane unakaa muh dekha naa unhone hamara... aur ek din wo nahi rahenge yaa saayad unake pahale main naa rahun... to jo bhi jinda hoga wo doosare ko yaad karke dukhi hoga.
aur pachtaayega ki samay rahate hamane ye kyun nahi kiya... to hamane wo kyun nahi kiya... lekin wo gilaa sikwaa bhi jindagi kaa ek hissa hai.
pata nahi upar koi jahaan hai... jahaan se baith kar ham ye sab dekhate hai... waise muskil lagtaa hai kyunki saare jeev aur jantu me bhi praan hai.... aur wo sab upar jaayenge tab to aatma hi banenge.. lekin hame to aisa lagtaa hai ki wo kyaa sochenge jinako hamane yahaan yun masal diyaa wo upar jaakar bhi waise hi dabe hue class me rahenge.
Aaj Noida me wo sharabi aadmi yaad aa raha hai ji subah ke 8 baje beech chauraahe par gir raha tha.... usase seedha chala nahi jaa raha tha... aur usake kapade safari suit, UP aur Bihar me thoda upar ke ameer warg ke log hi pahante hai.
apne jagah kaa wo ache parivaar kaa hoga lekin Noida jaisi jagah par wo sadak par feri lagaane waale bhi usako hey najar se dekh rahe the... waise ferry waale ko bhi main aise kyun mention kar raha hun... wo bhi to ek ensaan hai.
agar ham insecure nahi hote -- to gareebo ki taraf se muh nahi modte... kachade ke paas se gujarate hue naak nahi band karte --- aur kahan khaane ke pahale haath nahi dhote.
ham insecure hai aur secure hona chahate hai.
Agneepath kaa ek scene bahut acha lagaa tha -- badhiyaa dilemma --- Amitabh bachan ne itni taakat jama ki thi ki koi usako chu nahi paayega -- phir koi usake parivaar par atyaachar karnaa to door soch bhi nahi paayega --- lekin usaki behan ko kuch gunde bhare bajaar rape karne waale hote.
Amitabh ki maa kahti hai --- ki bura karne waale ke saath bura hi hotaa hai... Amitabh ne taakat ikatha karne ke gunaah kaa raasta apnaya tha... waise film dekhane ke baad usakaa gunaah bas ek business jaisa hi lagtaa hai... aisa koi gunaah nahi jisake kaaran aap kissi aadmi se nafrat karne lagte hai.
wo to us film ki kahani thi ---- yahaan security kaa matlab ye hai ki mujhe koi dukh naa ho... paise ki jab jaroorat ho wo ho... aur ek tarah se jo mujhe chahiye wo mujhe mil jaaye.
esame ilaaj, rahane ke liye ghar, ghumane ke liye gaadi -- bahut basic hai... lekin ye sab khud me kuch lakh se lekar crore aur kuch hazaar laakh crore ke bhi ho sakte hai... waise normal life me esake siwaa bhi itne kharach hai -- aur unke saath ek social status aur apni icha judi hai jo aapko bahut jyada paisa jama karne ke liye utsuk karti hai.
kaaphi dinno se kaam karte hue ek baat samajh me aaya hai.. ki ek aadmi ke shareer ki ek chamtaa hai jitnaa wo kaam karega aur paisa kamaayega... lekin agar wo bahut se logo ki chamtaa ko jod de... aur usakaa shauda kare to wo bahut paise kamaa saktaa hai.
ham kissi ke liye kuch karte hai to wo apne paise me se hame kuch paise de deta hai.... jab wo paisa hame mil jata hai to phir jo hamaare liye kaam kar raha hai usako ham usame se kuch de dete hai aur kuch apne bure waqt ke liye bacha lete hai.
lekin hamara bura waqt hamaari tarakee ke saath utnaa hi bada ban jata hai... bada sirf paise ke sense me hi hai.
lekin life me insecurity to hai nahi... aapke saath kabhi bhi kuch bhi ho saktaa hai... to jo log aappar dependent hai unako bhi secure kar lo... marne ke baad to waise mujhe kyaa farak padega lekin jab tak main jinda hun tab tak apne bache aur biwi.... kyunki shadi ke baad sabase close wahi ho jaate hai... maa, baap aur bhai... bahan to hai nahi.... lekin esako thoda aur bada karun... to kuch dost yaar.... kuch aur ristedaar... aur ek bada saa samooh ban jata hai.
par main sabake liye kyaa kar raha hun?? atleast unake liye paise to nahi jugaad raha hun.... pahale apni jaroorat aur phir unaki..... to ye paisa ek ajeeb si cheej hai aur esake liye ki gayi masakat aur bhi ajeeb hai...
tarah tarah ke scenario aate hai... paisa hone ke baad bhi bahut kuch aisa ho saktaa hai ki jisase life ek dam mast ho jaaye.... lekin kitni bhi behtar life ki kalpana kare usame problems ke hajaaro gunjaaish hai.
aur life ko paise ki bahut jyada kami ho... to wo pareshan kar sakti hai... jaise ki bahu jyada hone par pareshan karti hai.... gareeb hone par aapki biwi ki jab ijjat looti jaayegi to aap usako gareeb par atyachar kahenge.... ameer hone ke baad aapki biwi kissi ke saath soye... chaahe wo business development ke liye... yaa phir apne shauk ke liye... yaa akelapan door karne ke liye... boriyat khatam karne ke liye.... yaa phir kissi bhi kaaran se... to ye gussa bhi tarah tarah kaa ho saktaa hai.
to ham kyaa kare?? koi icha naa kare.... kissi bhi cheej ko naa maane... jo hoga wo ho saktaa hai... phir anger aur tamaam human emotion kaa kya... irshyaa, jalan, nafrat, abhimaan, swaabhimaan, kartavya, kaamna, chinta... ye sab alag alag tarah ke emotion and act ho sakte hai... lekin en sabpar control kaa matlab kyaa hai??
aur wo jeevan kya ho saktaa hai... aur hoga to kaisa hoga??
esako ek baar sahi se vichaar karo...
ab mera man kartaa hai ki main apne maa baap ke saath rahun... lekin unake sath rahane me bhi khitpit wali problems... cheejon me hastachep jo mujhe pasand nahi hoga... door hai to naa hamane unakaa muh dekha naa unhone hamara... aur ek din wo nahi rahenge yaa saayad unake pahale main naa rahun... to jo bhi jinda hoga wo doosare ko yaad karke dukhi hoga.
aur pachtaayega ki samay rahate hamane ye kyun nahi kiya... to hamane wo kyun nahi kiya... lekin wo gilaa sikwaa bhi jindagi kaa ek hissa hai.
pata nahi upar koi jahaan hai... jahaan se baith kar ham ye sab dekhate hai... waise muskil lagtaa hai kyunki saare jeev aur jantu me bhi praan hai.... aur wo sab upar jaayenge tab to aatma hi banenge.. lekin hame to aisa lagtaa hai ki wo kyaa sochenge jinako hamane yahaan yun masal diyaa wo upar jaakar bhi waise hi dabe hue class me rahenge.
Aaj Noida me wo sharabi aadmi yaad aa raha hai ji subah ke 8 baje beech chauraahe par gir raha tha.... usase seedha chala nahi jaa raha tha... aur usake kapade safari suit, UP aur Bihar me thoda upar ke ameer warg ke log hi pahante hai.
apne jagah kaa wo ache parivaar kaa hoga lekin Noida jaisi jagah par wo sadak par feri lagaane waale bhi usako hey najar se dekh rahe the... waise ferry waale ko bhi main aise kyun mention kar raha hun... wo bhi to ek ensaan hai.
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